< BACK  | AT HOME • October 6, 2014
Why the Law of Attraction doesn’t work
I sat with a close friend and we casually discussed relationships. As the Law of attraction advocates, she rolled off her tongue exactly what she wanted in a man. She has her list of qualities nailed down to a T in hopes of attracting the man she wanted.
The only problem was she was still describing every man she had ever been with in the past – relationships racked with infidelity, emotional manipulation, lies and all that dark stuff. I desperately wanted more for her at that moment.
That’s when I understood. Don’t set the intention – they’re set in the framework of your own limitations that you do not see. You’re asking for a rock when the universe is capable of bringing you a diamond.
He will arrive and he will be so much more than you could have ever put in words. Better yet, he will be everything you could have never guessed you wanted. That’s when you know the Universe is at work.
Do the inner work, the Universe will bring you exactly who you need to challenge you to grow to your greatest self – as long as your surrender what it is you think you need.
At that moment I also realized why my dad has called me his ‘diamond’ throughout my life. So I would never settle for a man that just wants rocks.